Wednesday, September 29, 2010

Triangle TRACKS Fall Membership Drive Kicks Off Oct. 1

It's that time of year again! The Triangle TRACKS Fall Membership Drive is Oct. 1- 22. Beginning Oct. 1, you'll have three weeks to send invitations to your friends suggesting that they join Triangle TRACKS. Let them know that as a member they'll have inside access to contests and special deals, and be able to post blogs and calendar events relating to children's resources and activities in the area.

The Triangle TRACKS member whose invitations return the most joined new members wins a fantastic 1st-place prize package including the following:

The 2nd place prize package includes:
Photo of the Santos Angel


The 3rd place prize package includes:
This fall, I'd love for Triangle TRACKS to reach at least 1,000 members. I'm so excited about the possibility of this, I've arranged for the 1,000th member of Triangle TRACKS to win a prize as well:
This contest is open ONLY to Triangle TRACKS members who have joined prior to Oct. 1. Members who join after the beginning of the membership drive will not eligible to participate in this membership drive, but will be eligible to participate in future membership drives and contests. Members can send out invitations up until midnight on Oct. 22. The winners will be announced Oct. 23 at noon.

Please let your friends know about the 1,000th-member prize! You'll receive a contest reminder just before it begins. Good luck!


Sunday, August 1, 2010

Triangle TRACKS Marketplace NOW Open for Business!


As editor of Triangle TRACKS, I'm excited to announce the launch of Triangle TRACKS Marketplace, a new online shop featuring a small, exclusive collection of products created by members of our online community.

Items being sold in the shop include Cary Heise's "Stay at Home Rock Star" T-shirt, available in black and gray, and three products created by Heather Figueroa, owner of Lily Bloom: Tooth Fairy Pillows, Flower Cupcake Sets, Reversible Double Bubble Skirts and Kidkins cloth napkin sets. All Lily Bloom products are made to order. As the holidays approach, a line of Laura Kelly Designs products will also be sold on the Triangle TRACKS Marketplace website.


If you have unique, handmade product you would like to sell on the Triangle TRACKS Marketplace website, please email me about it. I look forward to adding more unique products in the future!

Monday, June 21, 2010

How Losing a Library Book Forced Me to Grow Up - a Little

Not every 10-year-old experiences stress, debt and employment all at once. I was one of the lucky few.

It happened the day I lost a library book. My mother walked into my spotless, organized half of the bedroom I shared with my sister, put her hands on her hips and stated, quite calmly, "If you can't find it, you'll just have to pay for it."

This sort of thing did not happen to me.

I turned the entire bedroom inside-out looking for that stupid book. I searched the car. Nothing. My desk at school. No luck. My grandparents' house. Nada. The book had simply vanished, and with it went my methodical, orderly world.

Stress at age 10 is enough to transform the most practical child - and I was - into a psych patient. But debt, too? My allowance consisted of $2 a week, so at that rate, it would take me 8 weeks to save up enough money to pay the $15 I now owed the Athens Regional Public Library. I knew my mother would keep her word about paying for the book. She didn't change her mind about stuff like that.

But, she must have sensed my anxiety because she promptly picked up the phone to call my uncles, who operated a landscaping nursery in town, and asked if they had any work for a debt-laden 10-year-old. They kindly offered me a job: to plant ivy in 11-by-21-inch propagation flats. At $.75 per flat, how could I refuse? I earned the money back in one weekend - and learned a good lesson while I was at it.

This memory sticks with me as the years go by because I lost a little of my childhood that day - even though the very next week I returned to my carefree life of playing kickball after school and catching fireflies at night. That's just the way it was - back then.

But today? Stress doesn't fade as quickly. Our kids face routine activity-packed weeknights and academic pressures we never encountered. There are Internet safety concerns to consider as well. More and more children live with divorced parents, blended families, two working parents and the absence of nearby extended family (which contributes to stressed out, overworked parents, as well).

To be fair, I grew up with divorced parents, as many in my generation did. But my grandparents, aunts, uncles and cousins lived in the same town. I enjoyed larger than life Christmas mornings with 20 stockings hung across the mantle, and family dinners at least once a week. My kids have married parents, but no extended family in town, no larger than life Christmas mornings and maybe a big family dinner once a year, if we're lucky. I realize that no matter how hard I try, I'll never be able to replicate my childhood for my children. I should probably stop trying.

But reducing the amount of stress my kids experience is something I'll never stop trying to do. While we may look back at one or two stressful childhood scenarios that "forced" us to grow up a little, our kids may recall four or five.

Stress will continue to arrive in many colors, shapes and sizes - often without warning. So, we must raise confident, considerate and adjustable children who can weather whatever storm breaks. And while we're at it, we must enjoy each moment we have with them by creating a fun, peaceful and secure environment. The memories we make with them and self-esteem we instill in them now will someday shape the way they raise their children.

In the meantime, old-fashioned remedies still work. When your organized, methodical 10-year-old accidentally deletes an e-book off your iPad, tell her what my mother told me. "You'll just have to pay for it." The lessons she'll learn will make her stronger, more accountable and more adjustable to the future stresses that will surely come her way.

What are some of the stresses your children deal with and how do you manage or overcome these concerns?


PHOTOS:
1st photo: Me, my cousin and my sister with my dad right around the time of the lost-library-book incident.

2nd photo: This photo shows me doing what I did best - instructing my sister on exactly which present she should open first during my 9th and her 7th birthday party (we both have September birthdays and celebrated together for many years). Add "bossy" to my "organized, methodical" personality description.

Saturday, May 29, 2010

And the Laura Kelly Designs Sharpie 'Doodle It Up' Winners Are ...

The Laura Kelly Designs Sharpie "Doodle It Up" contest, which took place May 28 from 6 to 8 p.m. at Common Grounds Coffee Shop in Downtown Apex, was a huge success and loads of fun!

Triangle TRACKS is announcing the winners for Laura here, and we'll also post the winners' names on Laura's Facebook page and the Triangle TRACKS Facebook page. It's important to note that Triangle TRACKS did not have any input on the winners. Ultimately, neither did Laura. She selected the top 10 drawings in both categories and asked a panel of judges to choose the first, second and third place prize winners in each category. We've included jpgs of the prize-winning images below.

The winners are ...

KIDS
1st – Sam Canney
2nd – Ben Shugg
3rd – Mackenzie Wolf

ADULTS
1st – Nicole Dozier
2nd – Beth Mullenburg
3rd – Karyn Wolf


1st Place - Kids
Sam Canney

1st Place Adults
Nicole Dozier


2nd Place Kids
Ben Shugg

2nd Place Adults
Beth Mullenburg

3rd Place Kids
Mackenzie Wolf


3rd Place Adults
Karyn Wolf


CONGRATULATIONS to all of the winners! Your prizes will be available for pickup at The Rusty Bucket in downtown Apex anytime after June 9. If you have any questions, email Laura.




Saturday, April 3, 2010

Triangle TRACKS Featured on NBC 17's "My Carolina Today"

I nervously sat down with "My Carolina Today" co-host Page Crawford last week to discuss the best way for parents new to Triangle TRACKS to use the site. I also talked about how I came up with the idea for it and the process of creating the site. If you're interested, you can view the interview here.

Tuesday, March 9, 2010

HALO Passes Now Open to the General Public - Only 8 Passes Remain!


Beginning Monday, March 8, Triangle TRACKS extended its HALOs for Haiti's Littlest Angels fundraiser to the general public by offering non-members/non-newsletter subscribers access to the remaining HALO passes. (At the time this post was written there were only 8 passes left - 2 Golds, 3 Silvers and 3 Bronzes.)

If you are interested in purchasing a HALO pass in support of God's Littlest Angels orphanage in Haiti, please click here to read a description of what is on each pass, then email Triangle TRACKS with your name and the pass you would like to purchase. Upon receiving your email, we will list your name and the time we received your email in the comment field under that pass. If no one else has claimed that pass prior to the time we received your email, it's all yours!

Learn more about HALOs for Haiti's Littlest Angels here.

Tuesday, February 23, 2010

Triangle TRACKS and 14 Local Businesses Sponsor Fundraiser for Haitian Orphanage




Triangle TRACKS, a social network for Triangle parents, is sponsoring a fundraiser for God's Littlest Angels (GLA) orphanage southeast of Port Au Prince, Haiti. This orphanage is located southeast of Port Au Prince in the mountains above Pétion-Vill near the village of Fermath, and serves children as young as newborns up to around 7 years of age. Since the orphanage is not located directly at the earthquake’s epicenter, its primary damages were financial, because it has stretched its resources thin to care for its orphans on a day-to-day basis, and to assist the surrounding community with clothing, medical needs, toiletries and other necessities incurred as a result of the earthquake’s damage. There are even more orphans now, as a result of the earthquake, and many of the staff members also need help paying for home repairs and funeral expenses.

Triangle TRACKS created the HALOs for Haiti's Littlest Angels project to "Help Accommodate and Love an Orphan." Fourteen local businesses have agreed to help raise funds for GLA by kindly donating services and/or fun stuff for kids to do that we have divided into 25 HALO Passes. These passes are categorized into four levels and price ranges: Platinum ($150), Gold ($115), Silver ($75) and Bronze ($27). Each pass is priced at 50 percent of its total value and 100 percent of the proceeds will go to GLA. Click on the links below to see a description of each pass.

Platinum HALO Passes
Gold HALO Passes
Silver HALO Passes
Bronze HALO Passes
* We just received a donation from the Carolina Hurricanes: a team-signed stick and 2 signed pucks and autographs. We will create a special pass for the team stick and apply the pucks and photos to some of the existing passes.

Participating businesses include:

The Durham Bulls
The Carolina Hurricanes
The Carolina Ballet
North Carolina Theatre
Marbles Kids Museum
Classy Kids Cook
Triangle Rock Club
BounceU of Apex
Pump It Up of Raleigh
Laura Kelly Designs & Licensing
Wee-Create (Creative Art for Kids)
Sitter Connection
Erica Anne Design + Photography
Social Butterflies

Here's how it will work. Beginning March 1, Triangle TRACKS will offer its members first rights to purchase the passes. Any remaining passes will be offered for sale to the general public March 8. Due to the low prices and number of items on each pass, we anticipate they will sell quickly. Stay tuned for more details later this week!


Triangle TRACKS would like to thank Social Butterflies for assisting in the promotion of this fundraiser. Subscribe to Social Butterflies’ monthly e-newsletter at www.socialbutterfliesnc.com for information on upcoming children's activities and family events.


Learn more here.

Sunday, January 31, 2010

Announcing Our 'Tweet, Post or Join for Tickets' Contest!

Triangle TRACKS and the Durham Performing Arts Center have joined forces to give away 30 sets of 4 tickets to Princess Katie and Racer Steve’s “Revved Up & Ready to Rock” Feb. 6 shows at 11:30 a.m. and 3:30 p.m. That’s right, we’re talking FREE tickets! This contest is only open to MEMBERS of the Triangle TRACKS social network.

The contest also features an exciting bonus! One of the 30 winners will be randomly selected to win two tickets to Carolina Ballet’s 8 p.m. Feb. 20 performance of “Cinderella.”

To automatically win a set of 4 tickets for your crew to see Princess Katie and Racer Steve, and to be included in the drawing for the “Cinderella” tickets, be one of the first 30 people to TWEET, POST or JOIN between Jan. 25 and Feb. 3. Here’s what that means:


TWEET: Do you have a Twitter account? Be one of the first 30 people participating in this contest to “tweet” the following information between Jan. 25 Feb. 3 between the hours of 9 a.m. and 9 p.m., and you’ll qualify for 4 tickets to the show:
@TriangleTRACKS Order reserved seats to Princess Katie & Racer Steve’s Feb. 6 DPAC show for $10-$15/ticket. http://bit.ly/7wpFia.


POST: If you have a Facebook account and are one of the first 30 people participating in this contest to post this statement as your Facebook status between Jan. 25 and Feb. 3 between the hours of 9 a.m. and 9 p.m., you’ll automatically win 4 tickets to the show:
Triangle TRACKS has announced that reserved seats to Princess Katie & Racer Steve’s “Revved Up & Ready to Rock” show at DPAC are now available for $10-$15/ticket. Details here: http://www.dpacnc.com/default.asp?dpac=19&objId=208. Become a fan of Triangle TRACKS' Facebook page here: http://www.facebook.com/pages/Triangle-TRACKS/61147979949?ref=ts
If you don't allow your status posts to be viewed publicly, please email us a screen shot of the post so we can verify that you posted it, as well as the date and time it was posted.


JOIN: If you have yet to join Triangle TRACKS and are one of the first 30 people participating in this contest to join the social network between Jan. 25 and Feb. 3 – and your membership is approved by Triangle TRACKS – you’ll automatically win 4 tickets to the show. New members who join Triangle TRACKS during this contest may also “tweet” or “post” the above statement, but they can only win one set of tickets.

Winners will be able to pick up their tickets at DPAC’s Will Call booth before the show.
Time-stamping of Twitter tweets, Facebook posts and Triangle TRACKS membership registrations will help us determine the 30 winners. Each winner will be assigned a number of 1 through 30 so an online Random Number Generator can be used to determine the winning number of the Carolina Ballet tickets. We'll announce all winners Feb. 4 at noon. Good luck, and please email us if you have any questions!

Thursday, January 14, 2010

Triangle TRACKS Now Offers Groups for Parents in Each Triangle Town

Triangle TRACKS now offers individual groups to parents in 16 different towns or cities across the region. If you live in Apex, for example, and want to meet other Apex parents or just discuss topics relating to children in Apex, Apex TRACKS Connections is the group for you. Maybe you live in Raleigh but operate a children's business in Chapel Hill. If so, why not join the Raleigh and Chapel Hill Tracks Connections groups? It's easy to join. Just go to this link, find your town, then click on "join." We think you'll find the "Groups" feature ian effective way to reach out to and share ideas with your community.

Before Forecasters and Satellites, Surprise Snowfalls Made for the Most Magical of Mornings


Once again, we're featuring a column written about childhood by Tom Poland. This one is sure to hit home with all of you - especially those of you who grew up in the south.

Once Upon A Time Magic Was Literally In The Air
By Tom Poland

My childhood days unfolded in a remarkable manner. They were as simple as a hammer. My family and I were, in a way, cut off from civilization. Woods surrounded our home out in the country, and we had a rudimentary phone: a party line that rarely rang.

The Information Age had yet to materialize and in those uncomplicated days, we had no Weather Channel to tell us days in advance that snow was coming. It either came or it didn’t, and most of time, living in eastern Georgia and far from the mountains as we did, it didn’t. But when it did, well, it provided joy like no other weather can.

Magical mornings. My parents would wake me up. “Look out the window.”

There it was! A winter wonderland rare and sublime. There it was, that crystalline miracle, snow. Gold dust might as well have fallen during the night. Adrenalin surged through me. Mere sleeping had transported me to the land of the midnight sun and ice and snow. An altogether new architecture redefined all that was familiar into white lines and soft, glistening curves. It was as if a milky species of kudzu had carpeted the county.

Soon my sisters and I were marring the perfect surface with our tracks. (I always hated making tracks on that smooth, crystalline surface. I was ruining the only perfect thing I’d known. But out the door we went.)

On those rare, snow-blanketed mornings I awakened first, I could tell something was different. The world seemed muted, and a strange, soft silence muffled morning. A distant car seemed to slush down the Augusta Highway. And then I’d notice that the light seeping around the blinds and curtains seemed bluish. Peeking through the window jolted me. Snow had softly fallen throughout the night.

Memories of childhood snows live within me still. Rare happenings rarely fade. Those snows of childhood held magic. Few things rival the spellbinding beauty of quarter-sized flakes tumbling through the air. Mesmerized by their fall, I knew that nothing but good could come from flakes like that. No school. A snowman. A friendly snowball fight. Snow ice cream! Just skim a layer off the car roof into a bowl, mix in sugar, vanilla extract, and milk and, voilà, ice cream!

Freshly fallen snow meant a chance to walk through muffled wintry woods that seemed more like Vermont to me, though I had never been to Vermont. But there with the boughs crusted white, limbs sporting a meringue of white and creaking a bit and the ground softly cloudlike, the woods behind home seemed Vermont-like. As I walked through the trees, my boots crunched and squeaked, a deafening noise in that muffled winter wonderland.

Suddenly the creatures of the woods revealed themselves in a way like no other. Tracks galore. Dad and I once tracked a rabbit down until we found it sitting as still as stone, melding into a patch of brown leaves so perfectly seeing it came as a total shock. Raccoon tracks and birds of all types did their part to stencil wintry wildlife patterns onto the snow. A snowfall reveals evidence of the denizens of woods and fields like no other time. It’s a powdery lab where biology refuses to be ignored.

A snowfall made for a time of adventurous survival too. Those rare days of childhood snow sometimes knocked out the power. That meant tomato soup warmed over gas space heaters, wet clothes, and freezing hands and toes. And even that misery held its own peculiar brand of joy.

All those magical winter moments live in a place called recollection. To this day, snow unleashes a medley of memorable experiences in childhood and the remarkable thing is those memories retain their magic forever. As I write, I see a nine-year-old boy, Tommy, donning a cheap parka and gloves. Soon his fingers will burn from snow’s icy flames, but he won’t care.


Photo: "Tommy" around age 8 or 9


My Dad, as many dads did in the ’50s, bought a Bell & Howell 8 millimeter camera and made home movies. To this day, I can see the snowfall he captured on film; I want to say it’s the winter or late spring of 1958. I do believe it’s April. Our dog, Duke, romps in the snow. Mom holds up a handmade sign giving the date and I believe the snow’s depth of eight inches. The film jerks and swings wildly. Suddenly someone else is filming and my father runs into the camera: red from the cold, his heavy 5 o’clock shadow evident. Closer he comes, his face near the lens. Mom always said that shot made him look like an escaped convict. He was but 32 years old. He was a boy playing in the snow. Snow made children of us Southerners. That’s its true beauty.



Snow today? It means a hassle for those who drive to work. Over here in the city, as traffic snarls and fender benders break out like some metallic rash, area body shop owners anticipate a windfall of sorts.

Well before the snow arrives (it usually doesn’t), schools start giving notice that there’ll be a three-hour delay the next morning or even better to the kids, no school at all. But generally all that happens is a huge front of disappointment moves through. You could say a depression moves in ’cause every kid’s spirit plummets when snow fails to materialize.

It’s just a fact of life. Southern weathermen today are no good at predicting snow. Whenever a weatherman says it’s a certainty snow is coming, I know it’s not. But that doesn’t stop people from making a run on bread, milk, and soup at all the grocery stores. As soon as weathermen, those new celebrities born of clouds and climate, predict snow, people rise up like a horde of locusts and strip the shelves bare.

I can’t speak for you, but I much prefer the old days when a blanket of snow, thin though it may be, caught us by surprise. You wake up and there it is covering the land like an unanticipated veneer of confectioner’s sugar.

The allure of the exotic and the magic of discovery I guess is where the joy of snow came from in my youth.

Things changed, sadly. Now it’s unwise to eat snow ice cream. The air is filled with toxic particles, pollution, and other particulates that put snow ice cream on the “do not eat” list. Thanks progress. And driving in the snow amounts to a demolition derby down here where it doesn’t snow enough to justify snow plows. When it does snow, some northern transplants like to make fun of us, both our unbridled glee and our traffic troubles. “My Gawd, it’s just a little snow.” (Perhaps some of you recall the July 1995 heat wave that struck up North. In Chicago, 525 people died. “My God, it was just a little heat.” Of course I write that tongue in cheek. Well, not really.)

So, here we are deep into January with the coldest month of all, February, yet to come. Is there a chance we’ll have a record snow like the one that hit in 1973? I don’t know and I am doubly sure weather forecasters don’t know. Here’s hoping the so-called weathermen get it right just once this winter. Give the kids some snow, but do us a favor. Don’t predict snow. If you and your leaned ways and satellites know for sure snow is coming, don’t forecast it. Let a new generation of children experience the magic of a surprise Southern snowfall.

For your children’s’ sake, I hope they go to bed one night soon dreading a test at school the next day. And then throughout the night, here they come: fluffy alabaster flakes tumbling onto Georgia earth, a soft whispering accompanying their fall. Early the next morning, the world seems bluish and quiet.

And then dad or mom or both come into the bedroom. “Look out the window.”

A day of magic, one the kids remember the rest of their live, is about to unfold.



Photo: Tom's granddaughter, Katie, enjoys the snow in January 2009.

Friday, January 8, 2010

Triangle TRACKS Hosts Facebook Fan Page Contest



Are you a Facebooking Triangle TRACKS parent? If so, you may already be a fan of our Triangle TRACKS Facebook Fan Page. If you aren’t yet, we have a few good reasons for you to "fan" us on Facebook today.

Any Triangle TRACKS member who is also a fan of our Facebook page will be automatically entered into a random drawing to win some great prizes not one time, but TWICE. That’s right, your name will be entered TWICE into a random drawing to win these great prizes.

- 1 Nick Jr. show family 4-pack for “Nickelodeon Storytime Live” Sat. May 15 show at 2 p.m. at Progress Energy Center for the Perfoming Arts in Raleigh.

- 1 Family Pass to the Museum of Life and Science in Durham

- 3 Bounce Back BounceU Reward Passes (to be used during Open Bounce sessions)

- 1 Sitter Connection Premium Annual Membership (enables you to contact Sitter Connection up to five times/month to request a sitter. They do the legwork to find a sitter for you; you pay the sitter directly.) The names of Facebookers who become fans of our Facebook page but have not become members of Triangle TRACKS will be entered into our random drawing one time only.

We use our Facebook page to post links to fun events and interesting topics, so these posts will appear in your Facebook feed once you become a fan of our page. We think you'll find it convenient and helpful.

We’ll close the contest Jan. 21 at midnight and announce the winner Jan. 22 at noon. Good luck!

Sunday, January 3, 2010

Homeschool Resources on Triangle TRACKS

We've heard from several parents who are interested in connecting with homeschool parents and resources. You may have already visited our Homeschool resource page, which links off our Education TRACKS page. There are quite a few resources there for parents interested in learning more about homeschooling, and connecting with other homeschoolers. If you know of a homeschool resource we don't have on our page, please post a comment here or email us to let us know about it.